10 questions you need to ask yourself to see if you ready for marriage.
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10 questions you need to ask yourself to see if
you ready for marriage.
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A lot of singles do not really know
what they want, and this is the reason why they get depressed. Timing is not
about age but maturity. Everybody is getting older but not everybody is growing
up. Maturity is a choice. Marriage is for the matured and maturity has to be in
all sphere Spirit, Soul and Body. There must be a complete metamorphosis before
you are ready for marriage. Most of the marital crisis we experience today is
as a result of immature individuals marrying too early. Many people move from ‘pampers’
to ‘puberty’ and then straight to being a ‘parent!’ Everyone needs a time of
personal inward growth. A time of inner discovery and development, time of
personal awareness, interaction and fellowship with themselves – and that is
what brings maturity. You need personal and self-development before diving into
the waters of marriage.
Before
you finish crying your eyes out because you have not met your spouse, the
question is how prepared are you? How many books have you read? What is your temperament?
What is the purpose of marriage? There are ten questions you need to ask yourself
1.
Have discovered and fallen in love with yourself?
2.
Do you know yourself – your strength and weaknesses?
3.
Have you discovered your creator (the founder of the institution)? Ask yourself
this; can you be successfully admitted into an institution or graduate from an
institution without the consent of the head of the school (Head teachers,
principals, Rectors, Vice Chancellors)? So you have to know your creator (GOD)
for him to endorse it and only then can you find fulfillment.
4.
Do know your purpose for living or going into marriage?
5.
Have you discovered your vision? Do you know where you are going in life?
6.
Have you found peace with those around you – your environment and neighbors?
7.
Are you maintain balance with the different aspects of your life?
8.
Are you ready for challenges of adulthood in marriage? Are you are still a
teenager?
9.
Are you developed financially to take care of yourself?
10
.Are you still dealing with hurts, regrets, secrets and traumas from your past?
