HOW TO MAKE A GUY FALL IN LOVE AND PROGRESS FROM LUST TO LOVE
What characteristics do you possess that can make a guy fall in love? Do you feel that it is time to give your relationship a little push in the right direction? If so, what should you do to ensure success? Understanding how men fall in love can create a great deal of confusion for a woman, but these tips should help clear things up.
Almost
all relationships begin with some degree of lust. Even if you don't sleep with
a guy right away, lust is the primary driver of the relationship until you get
to know one another better. As you begin learning more about each other, the
lust typically eases into friendship mode as a man realizes that there is so
much more to his feelings for you than simple physical attraction. So far,
things are off to a good start.
Allow
the friendship to deepen by exploring more of each other's personalities,
likes, dislikes, goals, and ambitions. This is typically when a guy starts to
feel comfortable enough with you to begin sharing the more personal details of
his life. If your relationship makes it to this point, you are well on your way
to making him fall in love.
This
is where things can start to get a little rocky. At this point you are probably
feeling a very strong emotional connection to this guy. It's obvious he feels
it too, but he hasn't said anything about progressing further down the road to
a committed relationship. So you start worrying or acting anxious around him.
You may even tell him how you feel only to have him pull away. When that
doesn't work you resort to ultimatums as a way to convince him that your
relationship is destined for more.
In
order to make him fall in love, you need avoid doing the things described
above. As soon as you begin to feel anxious about the situation, that is a
warning sign to you to slow way down. Get a little distance from the situation
and allow him to lead the relationship at a pace that is comfortable for both
of you.