LOVE, RELATIONSHIP AND MARRIAGE TIPSS

There are certain things that spice relationship and marriage; these include love, tolerance, ability to stay together, vision, etc.                                                         LOVE For love to develop, it has to go through processes. Some guys are too quick to preach a sermon of love to a lady they just met. How can you love someone you just met? Someone you don't know her liabilities and limitations. I think people should learn to use some words right, you can be attracted to a person you met the first time but you cannot love the person. Some guys do go to the length of proposing to a lady they just met. This is bad because for love to develop, it has to go through processes and any process you skip will reflect later. ...

Many people think the only changes that come with marriage are change in marital status, wearing a ring and change of surname (for ladies). They think the rest is business as usual. That is why some married people are still living a single lifestyle. The truth is; there are a lot of things that have to change when one gets married. One's lifestyle needs to change too from a single lifestyle to a marriage lifestyle. When you get married, you have to sacrifice and give up on some of the things that you used to enjoy doing when you were single. Here are some (not all) of the things that you will have to stop (if you used to do them) and changes you must embrace /accept as a married man/woman:   1.       Stop flirting with people of opposite sex and sleeping around . No matter how many sexual partners you used to have when you were single, you must now be committed and faithful to that one person; your spouse. Learn to admire and let go. 2. Stop drin...

A strong, healthy relationship can be one of the best supports in your life. Good relationships improve all aspects of your life, strengthening your health, your mind, and your connections with others. However, if the relationship isn't working, it can also be a tremendous drain. Relationships are an investment. The more you put in, the more you can get back. These tips can help keep a healthy relationship strong, or repair trust and love in a relationship on the rocks. 1: Keep physical intimacy alive: Touch is a fundamental part of human existence; studies on infants have shown the importance of regular, loving touch and holding on brain development. These benefits do not end in childhood. Life without physical contact with others is a lonely life indeed. Studies have shown that affectionate touch actually boosts the body’s levels of oxytocin, a hormone that influences bonding and attachment. In a committed relationship between two adult partners, physical intercourse i...

10 questions you need to ask yourself to see if you ready for marriage.   A lot of singles do not really know what they want, and this is the reason why they get depressed. Timing is not about age but maturity. Everybody is getting older but not everybody is growing up. Maturity is a choice. Marriage is for the matured and maturity has to be in all sphere Spirit, Soul and Body. There must be a complete metamorphosis before you are ready for marriage. Most of the marital crisis we experience today is as a result of immature individuals marrying too early. Many people move from ‘pampers’ to ‘puberty’ and then straight to being a ‘parent!’ Everyone needs a time of personal inward growth. A time of inner discovery and development, time of personal awareness, interaction and fellowship with themselves – and that is what brings maturity. You need personal and self-development before diving into the waters of marriage. Before you finish crying your eyes out because you have...